Tool Box: Rediscovering Simon Says

A few days ago, my kiddo asked me to play Simon Says.  Now, my kiddo is eight and fairly bright and I figured this wouldn't last long.  Two hours later (and many, many giggles too), we finished up a rousing evening of fun!

We started off with all sorts of different acrobatics like crab walk, army crawl, hops, twirls, sprints, skips, and summersaults.  Then I started adding in obstacles like having him wiggle under chairs or hop between them or spin on top of them.

About this time, I started adding things he usually avoids like his journal writing and tooth brushing... he didn't even pause, he went off smiling and came rushing back for the next Simon Says!  I even used it to ask him questions like, "Simon Says tell me what sounds yummier for breakfast?" I started making multi-step directions too and being extra tricky and it just kept going with lots of laughs and smiles.  We've now played Simon Says multiple times over the last week and had so much fun!  I hope you find this tool useful!  Here's to rediscovering past parenting tools :)

I was surprised recently by an interest in holding hands too!  I love the growing independence, but it's fun to share the more youthful games / activities too!

Stability Getting Closer

We have an offer on our Kent house and things are moving forward on getting into our Los Gatos house so... we're hoping to have two closings by the end of the month!  Yay!


Other good things to share:
The latest Objectivist Round Up.
Cute antics:

• Informing me that he brought the earthworm inside and put it on my parents' windowsill so he could "see it better"

• getting so into Simon Says that when I said "Simon says enjoy your last half hour of video game time before the computer shuts off.", he asked to keep playing Simon Says instead!

• laughing hysterically again and again while reading himself Calvin and Hobbes comic collections

• talking non-stop for thirty minutes to tell me the story of his latest video game adventure

• playing gleefully with worms and splashing in the puddles with… ONLY pants on and it was in the 40s!

• commenting on his increasing tolerance of zesty foods, "I'm getting into the hang of spicy."

• pointing his gaze down the neck of the wine bottle, "I like the look of this wine!"

Legos are the favorite break time activity at Lindamood Bell

Thyroid? Migraine? Take 2

[ Once again, only for those interested in my health search saga...]

Eight moths ago, while things looked more positive, symptoms and challenges remained and quickly plateaued.   The neurologist confirmed the symptom diagnosis of migraines, gave me Imitirex (which works as a patch), and didn't have any advice regarding the causative agent (although she did point to some potential triggers).  The sleep specialist didn't have anything to add except a book recommendation with was a quick read but did not change anything.  The hearing specialist said I didn't have any significant hearing issues.  So, I was stuck again and decided to seek assistance from a new practitioner.  

Two months ago, I consulted with Chris Kresser.  I have been listening to his podcasts and reading his articles for several years.  I like how he's constantly integrating the latest, scholarly literature and trying to help a growing population of medical patients.  He had both clinical expertise and a focus on the latest science that I hoped would help me get at more root causes.  He also had success with migraine treatment specifically.  While his website is more anti conventional medicine than I am, I have found him not adverse to recommending conventional approaches when he finds them clinically appropriate.  

To start, I completed multiple, detailed questionnaires and got a set of required blood work.  The first consult resulted in multiple supplements targeted at migraine prevention and a highly restrictive diet.  The supplements have been awesome for minimizing migraines.  I have still had several instances over the last month, but they have been much more mild and not required medication.  The diet eliminates / minimizes three substances that can trigger migraines and eliminates anything that is not a lean meat or a non-startchy vegetable.  The diet, a protein sparing modified fast, is designed to spare my muscle by ensuring that I eat adequate protein while allowing me to burn the extra body fat that I have.  The goal is to reset what my body defends as its "normal" weight to what is my ideal weight.  So far, it's been working beautifully!  I have lost 15 lbs easily!  It's been two years since I've been at this weight and it means I'm down to 30 lbs left to lose.  

I had a second consult yesterday in which I found out that my thyroid function is still low and may be contributing to the remaining migraine / illness issues.  So, I have several more supplements on the way that are supposed to support thyroid function.  These last two months have been wild with all the moving prep and changes, but it is really exciting to be seeing progress!  Here's more positive steps toward optimal health over the upcoming year :)

Book Review: "Tea Party Patriots: The Second American Revolution"

Last night, I finished reading "Tea Party Patriots: The Second American Revolution".  I wanted to share my consolidated notes on the book for those considering reading.  I am particularly interested in taking them up on their offer to integrate new ideas into their plan for the next forty years.  This is a great opportunity for activism, fighting for a better future.

The good:

-They begin by choosing solidly  positive values to guide their specific goals / actions.  Fiscal responsibility, constitutionally limited government, and free markets are good things!

- Their optimism and enthusiasm for America is delightful and gives one hope that the American sense of life is stronger than the counterculture they aptly describe.

- It's awesome that they very clearly state they are not taking any stance on social issues.  I think that helps them avoid pit falls (that their founders clear acceptance of god's-will would present).  It also helps them appeal to a broader group of Americans who really want the government to focus on economic / political freedoms NOW!

- They have a glorious call to action that puts the power and responsibility back where it belongs, with individual Americans.

My concerns:

- They not only frequently refer to god given rights, the authors all thank god as their primary deserver-of-credit in the book's acknowledgements.  Could the Tea Party Patriots be trusted to protect liberty in this area?  A pro-liberty candidate must vote on laws in a way that respects individual rights in fields other than just economics.  

- In their section on health-care compacts, they again miss the issue of individual rights and seem quite content with the states trampling citizens (just the federal government shouldn't be allowed to impose such systems).  p97 "Health-care compacts themselves don't impose a one-size-fits-all approach on any state.  They allow each individual state to choose what solution it believes is best for its citizens.  Will some states implement systems that aren't compatible with the Tea Party movement's core values of fiscal responsibility, free markets, and constitutionally limited government?  Of course.  Are we okay with that?  Absolutely.  Power to the people."  That sounds like democracy, the tyranny of the majority and a clear lack of focus on individual rights.  The states can say "buy that insurance" (or drink that hemlock), just the federal government can't.

- While making an excellent case for the need for education reform, there is an implied view that states should actually provide the education.  It's ambiguous though and many of the suggestions are intriguing.  I think they would benefit from this article in The Objective Standard:.

Ambivalent:

- The repeal amendment idea smacks of democracy, but also offers an intriguing limit on supreme court errors.  I'd want to study this idea much more thoroughly, but I see potential value. 

- In their chapter regarding popular culture, they quote Ayn Rand's "Romantic Manifesto".  On one hand, it fits and supports their point, but on the other hand it's a throw away reference which brings me to my key concern.  The argument for actually taking action is on a wobbly base.  It seems like what they are saying again and again is: 

-The founders did it this way.

-They were really smart.

-It worked.

-We should do it that way.

If they don't think it is morally right that people should have a right to their own property, but only economically effective, they are more of a danger to capitalism than those who present an opposing argument.  A weak argument is more detrimental because it can give the impression that the idea is wrong when it's just that the argument supporting it was in error (for example saying the free market has failed in America when what we're dealing with is a super-regulated, mixed economy).  I place this concern under the "ambivalent" category because I think the book's core values are good and I think they support individual rights in some aspects.  However, when I see states put over individuals as the primary holder of power for both education and health-care, I am concerned that the Tea Party Patriots' support of individual rights is vulnerable.

Catching Up On Cute Antics

It's been awhile since I've shared cute antics, but I'm still collecting away thanks to my rambunctious kiddo giving me lots of material :)

• reading aloud a Valentine written to him by classmate it said, "I'll miss you because you're nice."  Cameron paused, smirked, and said, "So she thinks!"

• discussing friends together, he said "I don't have any friends.  And adult friends, besides you and Daddy, are just a centimeter above the friend line."  (Then we talked about friends in given areas and I was impressed with how much more awareness he's gaining when he is calm and processing.  He identified many friends in certain contexts.  The more he understands, the more positive relationships he can build, maintain, and enjoy.  He still gets so confused, but he's learning!)

• agreeing to a play date eagerly, but adding the condition that he be allowed to bring his lego shot gun, colonial hat, and very, formal uniform.

• getting very snuggly on one side of my chest and then saying, "Now the other one!" (while his father watched and laughed wickedly.)

• while playing our History Go Fish game, he came across Plato and Aristotle and  asked if had, "Play Doh and Aristotle"

http://theplayfulspiritrachel.blogspot.com/2011/11/history-play.html

• completing my Dad's Shakespeare quote… cauldron burn and… "Me in trouble!"

• declaring that broccoli was "one of the worst things in the world through my lens".  (He continued to comment that it might be different through someone else's lens, but then returned to its poor evaluation through his.)

• when I commented on his verbal presentation, he corrected me, "I wasn't screaming I was just shouting a little!"

• musing, "Maybe I should practice my spin death so you can be my audience for the performance."

• making us feel great trepidation when he left the bathroom giggling, "Everyone is going to have a big surprise when they go in that bathroom."

• commenting out of the blue while we were driving home, "Why aren't you teaching me calculus?"

Showing me the Lindamood Bell kitchen and showing off the hat my dad gave him.

Temporary Housing Update

After three days recouping, I'm enjoying the most awesome temporary housing situation!  I'm staying with my welcoming parents where I can teach my classes and Cameron can attend Lindamood Bell and Andrew can facilitate the sale of one home / purchase of the other.  So... while lots is still going on, our stuff is now in storage and we're enjoying this pause before the moving in storm.  Andrew will move in with his buddy in Oakland before the start of work at Groupon, March 1st.  Our new home will close in March, hopefully by the 8th.  I'll likely not be doing much blogging in this interim period, but I am having little sparkles like... I saw "42nd Street" with my dad and, today, I discovered a chocolate tea  with my mom that is the best one I've ever tried and it's herbal too!

Andrew talking to the mortgage bank on our walk this afternoon

Playing with the leftover dry ice after we put our freezer items in my parents' freezer

Objectivist Round Up

Welcome to the February 9, 2012 edition of objectivist round up.  Considering I just got back from dancing with my husband and this Round Up covers Valentine's Day week, I thought a quote about love would be a great start to the edition:

"One gains a profoundly personal, selfish joy from the mere existence of the person one loves. It is one’s own personal, selfish happiness that one seeks, earns and derives from love."

“The Ethics of Emergencies,”
The Virtue of Selfishness, 44

Happy reading!

Burgess Laughlin presents Making Progress: Should a movement have watchmen? posted at Making Progress, saying, "This posts suggests that a movement does need "watchmen," in any of a variety of forms, but those watchmen must be objective in their accusations -- offering specific evidence, an argument (a proof), and a clear statement of the indictment."



Edward Cline presents The State of the Reich posted at The Rule of Reason, saying, "Substitute “This Nation” with “Germany,” and I challenge anyone to fail to see the difference between Obama's State of the Union address and anything Hitler or Mussolini had ever written or spoken."



John Drake presents Research in universities - the good and bad posted at Try Reason!, saying, "Publish or perish, and for good reasons. But at what costs? I provide an academics perspective on the good and bad of research in universities and suggest some possible solutions."



Andy Clarkson presents The Indispensables: Work, And Sex With A Woman You Love posted at The Charlotte Capitalist, saying, "The most important thing Dr. Leonard Peikoff has ever said...(sorry, you'll have to go to the link)."



Jim Woods presents Three Suicides posted at Words by Woods, saying, "In the suicides of a relative, cardiologist Dr. Rene Favaloro, and historian Iris Chang, important life lessons can be found."



Darius Cooper presents How're we doing on Unemployment? (Feb 2012 Edition) posted at Practice Good Theory, saying, "I look at how the U.S. economy is doing on the unemployment front"



Jason Stotts presents Contra Peikoff on Rape posted at Erosophia, saying, "My analysis of Peikoff's claim that in some contexts a woman cannot revoke her sexual consent. I wholeheartedly disagree."



Santiago and Kelly Valenzuela presents The Defense Of Marriage Act: End unconstitutional tyranny upon individual rights and the rights of immigrants. posted at Mother of Exiles, saying, "Guest blogger, Andrew Ryan, calls for an end to the unconstitutional tyranny upon individual rights and the rights of immigrants."



Paul Hsieh presents Worse Than Death Panels posted at We Stand FIRM, saying, "I highlight a nice article from John Goodman of NCPA on why "evidence based medicine" is a dangerous to your health, despite its scientific-sounding name."



Edward Cline presents The Sticky Wickets of “Radical” Islam posted at The Rule of Reason, saying, "Here are some randomly selected excerpts from a British government report that treat “violent extremist” Muslims as victims or put-upon, passive, and helpless Islamic receptors of “extremism”"



Ari Armstrong presents Cake Bill Advances posted at Free Colorado, saying, "If successful, Colorado legislation will legalize cottage bakers, meaning they can bake goods in their home and sell them."



Diana Hsieh presents SnowCon 2012 posted at NoodleFood, saying, "Front Range Objectivism will be hosting another (less formal) SnowCon from March 15 to 18th in Frisco, Colorado. Join us!"



Diana Hsieh presents Video: Overcoming Perfectionism posted at NoodleFood, saying, "In Sunday's webcast, I discussed what "perfectionism" is and how a person can overcome it."




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